Come, my darling, come listen as I share with you my thoughts.
Have you been chosen to preside at a party? Don’t give yourself airs! Just be like everyone else in the group; see to their needs and then sit down. When you have done what you should, take your place and enjoy yourself with the others. They will congratulate you for a job well done. Speak as befits your age, but know what you are talking about and do not interrupt the music. If there is a concert, refrain from speaking; it is not the time for playing the wise one. Speak if you have to, but not more than twice and only if requested. Keep to the point and say it all in a few words. Show that you are well-informed but not anxious to speak. Do not try to be the equal of eminent people and do not chat when someone else is speaking. Do not reveal the secret of another, lest he overhear it and despise you and your reputation be lost. As lightning goes before thunder, the reputation of a modest man goes before him. Remember your father and mother when you are sitting in the company of the great, lest you forget yourself in their presence and act like a fool. My child, conduct your affairs with discretion and you will be loved by those who are acceptable to God. Leave the party at the right time and do not be slow about it; no lingering, go straight home! Are you listening? There, you may relax and do as you please, but do not sin by bragging. And finally, my dear, thank your Creator for the enjoyment of all good things. 13.05.24